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Wish recommends giving them the benefit of the doubt.
If you weren’t connecting much over the conversation on the first date, consider attempting a re-do.
Once you’ve ruled out nerves and both of you have had a chance to lower your guards a bit, you’ll have an easier time determining if your lackluster discussions are shedding light on how little you have in common.
But unless you’re pretty certain that you and your date just aren’t going to click, Dr.
The goal is to reduce your first date jitters — which most often bring out the worst in both of you.
When you lower the importance of the activity, your guard goes down and you each can see a more accurate view of each other.”Another option is to attend an event together, whether a boat show, an art exhibit, or a flea market.
I’d describe myself as a mix between introvert and extrovert.
Ask any of my close friends and they’d say I’m loud and outgoing, but ask someone who doesn’t know me too well and they’d probably say the opposite.
If you’ve gone on several dates with someone and the conversation still doesn’t feel effortless, there’s a chance that it’s a compatibility issue.
Over the past couple of years, it has become increasingly glaring that most people aren’t as comfortable with silence as I am.
What most refer to as “awkward silence” or lulls in conversation, I refer to as normal.
It’s not that I’m by any means shy – small talk just isn’t my thing, so it takes me a little while to warm up to people.
For the most part, this approach works in most aspects of my life except one: first dates.